Tuesday, April 27, 2010

My left/right brain results

Right Brain/ Left Brain Quiz
The higher of these two numbers below indicates which side of your brain has dominance in your life. Realising your right brain/left brain tendancy will help you interact with and to understand others.
Left Brain Dominance: 16(16)
Right Brain Dominance: 16(16)
Right Brain/ Left Brain Quiz

Saturday, April 24, 2010

Forgiveness is Love

To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover the prisoner was you.
A Christian will find it cheaper to pardon than to resent. Forgiveness saves the expense of anger, the cost of hatred, and the waste of spirit.

How often we turn to hate & revenge over forgiveness, but t
here is no revenge so complete as forgiveness. I know myself, in the past I've found it difficult & thought it to be weak to just 'forgive ' people for they're offense towards me. What about justice & punishment I'd say to myself! But I know once I have forgiven, it's like a weight is lifted off my shoulders and the rest I put to God to sort out for he is our only Judge, saying - "Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned...." Luke 6:37.

As soon as we find ourselves wanting revenge, we are judging and it's not our job....aren't we lucky for this! Can you imagine having to be the judge for every single human being! From the smallest and pettiest of offenses to the most painful and grueling - we are to forgive all. It's not a suggestion or a recommendation, but a command. And...ask for that person to forgive us too, for the negative feelings towards them. God tells us "...if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins" - Mark 11:25 and Forgive, and you will be forgiven" - Luke 6:37

Today I went to a program through a local church about How To Fight Feelings of Suspicion & Distrust and How to Avoid Rehearsing Past Hurt & Regain Trust After Trust has been Broken. The main point/solution was to forgive & be forgiven. It was quite interesting the points he made that really, I'd known before, but somehow lost grasp of overtime.

My mother always taught me & my siblings that "two wrongs don't make a right" which I'd always interpreted to mean - if someone does something bad to you, doing another bad thing back to them does not solve the problem, it only makes it worse, and this is so true!
I've been thinking about this since, because my thoughts about forgiveness have been that it's about letting go of negativity & ceasing to desire revenge.

So, I googled it (Oh! How I love google!) And this is what it states: Forgiveness is the process of ceasing to feel resentment, indignation or anger for a perceived offense, difference or mistake, or ceasing to demand punishment or restitution”.
But, the meaning of the word "forgiveness" hasn't always meant to stop feeling hatred towards someone for a past offense, but used to mean to give something from yourself, at a cost. To for-give, give forward...? This is what I believe it was intended to mean. So to sum it all up, I now know that forgiveness isn't only a feeling, it's an act. Both the new & old meanings combined make for an awesome kind of forgiveness!

The feelings & blessings after forgiveness way outshine the small thrill from negative thoughts & continued resentment. It's not healthy for our souls.

I love you, O LORD, my strength. - Psalm 18:1

Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against one of your people, but LOVE your neighbor as yourself, for I am Lord - Leviticus 19:18

Hatred stirs up dissension, but LOVE covers all wrongs - Proverbs 10:12

Blessings to All!


Monday, April 19, 2010

What a beautiful day to wake up to!

Unlike most, I like the cold, crisp fresh air of an Autumn morning...it's a great way to wake up, a nice whip across the face with that cool breeze. This morning my son decided that 8 hours slumber was a little short, so I was able to organise my day with ease as he wasn't at my feet begging me to play. He is such a playful little tyke, but very dependent on Mummy's company, which I suppose, is a nice feeling.

But still, a touch of sadness holds my happiness in chains at the moment, as a dearly loved family member of my Husbands has passed away & he is due to fly down for the funeral today. I always miss him when he's not with me. We are so much in love with one another that it hurts to be apart. I should be thankful, as I know it'll help me to appreciate my Husband so much more. So as to keep our love strong and it can only deepen & sweeten over time. I am cleaved unto him & we are one flesh.

Houses and riches are an inheritance from fathers,
but a prudent wife is from God.
Prov 19.14

Lucky I have family nearby to comfort me & keep me company!

My little shining star!

Those liquid brown eyes
Those round plump cheeks
That infectious belly laugh
The dimples when U grin

What makes my baby so exceptional?
Is it his loud, exited spirit?
Or is it the glow of love he radiates?

What makes a heart fill to the bursting point for one little person?
I'll never truly know...

But, let me tell you little man,
Your Mummy loves you so!